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A Great Deal on the Brooklyn Bridge

New Year’s Eve in The Big Apple and your GypsyNesters were seriously contemplating a Times Square, ball-dropping extravaganza. After a bit of research and chatting up of locals, we felt that wading into a crowd of a million people, getting frisked and herded into little fenced-in safety areas, then standing for hours with no restrooms, food or libation is no way to ring in a new year.

Even an article entitled “Fear Conquering & Ball Dropping,” as hilarious as that would be, could not entice us to spend that much time needing to pee.

So, what to do?… CONTINUE READING >>

Brooklyn Bridge at night

New Year’s Eve in The Big Apple and your GypsyNesters were seriously contemplating a Times Square, ball-dropping extravaganza. After a bit of research and chatting up of locals, we felt that wading into a crowd of a million people, getting frisked and herded into little fenced-in safety areas, then standing for hours with no restrooms, food or libation is no way to ring in a new year.

Even an article entitled “Fear Conquering & Ball Dropping,” as hilarious as that would be, could not entice us to spend that much time needing to pee.

So, what to do? There are numerous clubs with parties and bands all over town, fancy restaurants with special dinners and enormous price tags, hotels with rot-gut champagne packages, cruises on the rivers and even a lung-busting midnight fun run through Central Park.

We chose a fast growing new tradition for our New York New Year revelry – walking across The Brooklyn Bridge. Both free of charge AND priceless.

Scenes from the Brooklyn Bridge at night

Guided tours are available for this unique annual trek, but thousands of people each year bundle up and set out across the bridge on their own.

We began our crossing at about a quarter past eleven, had plenty of time for a leisurely stroll, as leisurely as possible among throngs of revelers on a December night above The East River, across the bridge and then get back to the middle in time for the countdown to midnight.

The views of the Manhattan skyline, the river, other bridges and The Statue of Liberty make for a fantastic walk on any day or night of the year, but since we had the chance, why not on the eve of a new year?

Scenes from the Brooklyn Bridge at night

With ten minutes left until the big moment, we crowded our way to the center of the bridge. It was packed with revelers. Not a bad thing as the wind had picked up and the temperature dropped down, we gladly shared our body heat and excited smiles.

We, along with throngs of others, kept a close eye on the nearby Watchtower Clock in eager anticipation. We were not the only non-locals, it was like a mini U.N. meeting up there. Joyful noise in many languages floated around us as we gazed upon New York City dressed up in her holiday splendor.

Fireworks fired from Governer's Island

Just before midnight an exuberant Japanese group began a chant and the countdown began. The finale of the count was easily understood in any language, HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Hugs and greetings were exchanged between strangers and loved ones alike while fireworks brightly exploded in several locations around the city. Champagne corks popped and toasts were offered as each group celebrated according to their tradition. Awesome!

The Brooklyn Bridge is one of the oldest suspension bridges in the United States with construction beginning in 1869 and completed in 1883. At the time it was the longest suspension bridge in the world, 1,595.5 feet. There was some tragedy involved with the building of the bridge, designer John Augustus Roebling crushed a foot during the surveys for the project, contracted tetanus and died.

Before passing away he appointed his son, Washington Roebling, to carry on the project, but Washington was stricken with decompression sickness while diving below the river to work on the pilings. He was left paralyzed but communicated his wishes through his wife Emily, who supervised the project for eleven years. All told twenty seven people lost their lives during the construction.

Despite the tragedy, the bridge became an immediate icon with poems and songs written about it. Later, it became a movie star appearing in dozens of films including Deep Impact, Godzilla, I Am Legend, Cloverfield, Zombi 2, and Kate & Leopold.

The Manhattan Bridge viewed from the Brooklyn Bridge at night

Though we most likely stood out as visitors to the big city, no one tried to sell us the bridge like George C. Parker and William McCloundy are famously said to have done to gullible tourists back in the early 1900s. They must have been fairly successful salesmen since the phrase “I’ve got a bridge to sell you” became a part of the American lexicon. By 1949 even Bugs Bunny was trying to sell the Brooklyn Bridge to a naive tourists.

Wallets intact, we walked into Manhattan to find a spot to warm up, have a nightcap and relieve ourselves. That’s right, we managed to refrain from peeing off the bridge. We found a little place but, man, had the celebrations taken a toll on this bunch! Of the seven people left in the bar, two were asleep and four were incoherently drunk.

The other one was the bartender. He seemed OK. We ordered and sat back to watch a little bit of the show. After a bit of babbling and barfing from the characters, we decided it might be time to call it a night.

Grimaldi's Pizzeria under the Brooklyn Bridge

We didn’t try it on New Years for fear of the crowds, but right at the base of The Brooklyn Bridge, on the Brooklyn side, is Grimaldi’s Pizzeria, with arguably New York’s best pizza.

Now that’s a bold statement, New York is known for it’s pies and the joints that serve them, so we we happily delved into our latest chapter of the “New York Pizza War.”

Legend has it that the first pizza ever was served by Gennaro Lombardi at Lombardi’s in Little Italy way back in 1905.

Lombardi’s still serves up a mean pie, we know from experience, but hundreds of other places have sprung up to compete, forty six of which have Ray’s in the name one way or another. Ray’s Original Pizza, Famous Ray’s Pizza, World-Famous Original Ray’s Pizza, it seems like there’s one on every corner.

Our personal favorite among the contenders comes from John’s of Bleeker Street, still, we’re always on the lookout for a better pie, so a trip to Grimaldi’s was undertaken. Their website claims “the coal-fired oven at Grimaldi’s Pizzeria delivers a unique flavor and consistency that is just not possible from wood or gas ovens.”

Both John’s and Lombardi’s also use coal ovens, so we are inclined to believe the boast, but trying is believing.

Grimaldi’s is a tiny place under the Brooklyn Bridge in DUMBO (Down Under the Manhattan Bridge Overpass) and is famous for not only the pizza, but the line waiting to get in. Even on this Sunday afternoon the line was several dozen deep.

After about twenty minutes we were inside. Ordering didn’t take much thought, the menu is limited to basically salad and pizza. No pasta here and the listed appetizers looked to be pizza toppings served minus a crust.

No problem, it’s all about the pie. In fact the center point of the restaurant is the line where they make the pies. It’s dinner and a show, watching the dough get pounded, tossed, covered and popped into the oven.

Coal-fired goodness!

The finished product is one good pizza. Great cheese, excellent crust and sauce that would make a jaded New Yorker cry.

The Italian sausage is a favorite at Grimaldi’s, so we had to give it a try. They grind it fresh and toss it on raw to cook with the pie. Mama mia!

In general, our favorite pizza is the one we’re eating at the time, but with a little time to reflect we agreed that John’s is still our favorite. Their meatball is hard to beat. But Grimaldi’s is really close.

Maybe we should go back to each several times, just to make sure.

David & Veronica, GypsyNester.com

60 Years of Marriage: A Gift My Parents Gave Me

This week our family is celebrating a remarkable event, my parent’s sixtieth wedding anniversary. Only an extraordinary mixture of love, trust, faith, hard work, and — yes — luck could have made this event possible.

I’m not going to attempt to analyze the inner workings of how a union can not only survive, but thrive over six decades, I am simply going to offer thanks.

More than gratitude for the care and security that I received, although that too often goes unspoken, I want to particularly express how grateful I am forCONTINUE READING >> 

David's Mom and Dad on their wedding day

There are two lasting bequests we can give our children: One is roots, the other is wings.” – Hodding Carter

This week, our family will be celebrating a remarkable event; my parent’s sixtieth wedding anniversary. Only an extraordinary mixture of love, trust, faith, hard work and — yes — luck could have made this event possible.

I’m not going to attempt to analyze the inner workings of how a union can not only survive, but thrive over six decades, I am simply going to offer thanks.

More than gratitude for the care and security that I received, although that too often goes unspoken, I want to particularly express how grateful I am for their example.

When I met Veronica to say she had a dim view of marriage would have been a major understatement.  As a child she lived through several divorces, and so had good reason to be highly sceptical of the institution. I, on the other hand, had never considered matrimony as anything other than a permanent proposition.

That viewpoint obviously came directly from my parents, not as something they drilled into my head, but as something I grew up observing. They didn’t preach their position, they lived it. That contribution to my upbringing is a huge factor in the happy fact that ten days after my parent’s celebration, Veronica and I will mark our own wedding anniversary of thirty years.

Mom and Dad raised five kids, and all the while provided invaluable instruction on parenting too. Again, not through teaching, but by example. I am the fourth born of the five, so I had the benefit of watching what came before me. I learned the rules and what to expect, and by the time I was a teenager, I knew the drill.

After high school, I was generously offered the opportunity to continue my education. Mom and Dad would cover tuition and a place to stay when school wasn’t in session, but once college was finished, or if I chose not to continue my education, it was time to grow up, be an adult and provide for myself.

This is a philosophy that we have adopted with our own kids as well. I am thankful that my parents had the confidence and faith in me to expect nothing less than independence and self-reliance. It has served me well throughout my adult life. I learned to fight my own battles, solve my own problems, and be proud of my ability to do so.

That sort of pride is not unseemly, it is a gift. A gift we lovingly pass on to their grandchildren.

Thank you Mom and Dad.

David, GypsyNester.com

How The Galápagos Made Birders Out of Us

A trip to The Galápagos Islands is guaranteed to make a birder out of anyone. The sheer numbers, and just plain strange features that isolation has brought upon these fabulous creatures would have been enough for us.

Couple this with fact that we spent more effort backing away from them than trying to spot them – these birds have absolutely zero fear of humans – and we were… CONTINUE READING >> 

A trip to The Galapagos Islands is guaranteed to make a birder out of anyone. The sheer numbers, and just plain strange features that isolation has brought upon these fabulous creatures would have been enough for us. Couple this with fact that we spent more effort backing away from them than trying to spot them – these birds have absolutely zero fear of humans – and we were instantly hooked!

WATCH: It’s not enough to see them, you have to hear them! And the sheer numbers will astound you.

Boobys looking after eggs in the Galapagos, Genovesa Island
A Red-footed Booby and a Nazca Booby watching over their eggs

Genovesa Island has been nicknamed “The Bird Island” and that moniker is certainly fitting. Considering the proliferation of the red-footed and Nazca varieties of boobies, booby island was likely the original idea for a nickname… someone must have thought better of that nomenclature.

A Nazca Boobie blocks our path
Even when they block the trail, don’t touch the boobies!

There is a six-foot boundary rule for all animals on the islands. As humans, it was our duty to keep that distance.

A baby boobie!
A baby boobie. Like a puppy, this little cotton puff needed to grow into those feet!

See our full adventure The Galapagos!

Male frigates inflating in Galapagos Islands
Male frigates doing their version of the singles bar scene. What girl could resist a bright red inflated gular sac like that?

A female frigit gets a bit frisky!
A female frigate gets a bit frisky! And these two weren’t even sporting red gular sacs – go figure! We were the only ones that remembered we were holding cameras.

Short-eared Owl, Genovesa Island, Galapagos
Short-eared Owl enjoying lunch

A major highlight of our bird hike on Genovesa had to be when we spotted a Short-eared Owl eating a freshly captured Storm Petrel. These rare owls are diurnal, meaning they hunt during the day, and are the only owls known to exist that exhibit this behavior.

Red-billed Tropicbirds in the Galapagos
Red-billed Tropicbird

A zodiac ride along the cliffs of Genovesa Island beside the towering rocks afforded us intimate encounters with Red-billed Tropicbirds sporting their crazy-long tails.


Frigates were our constant companions. Dozens glided above our ship every day as we sailed through the islands.

See our full adventure The Galapagos!

A Darwin Finch and his nest in the Galapagos
Darwin’s Finch

Spotting one of Darwin’s famous finches, the guys that started the evolution craze, was especially exciting when hiking up to Darwin’s Lagoon. We got to see his house too.

Flightless Cormorant eating a Tiger snake eel in the Galapagos
Flightless Cormorant

We spied a Flightless Cormorant eating a Tiger Snake Eel. In the blink of an eye (but sadly, not of a camera lens) a pelican swooped down and, after a mighty tug-of-war, stole the cormorant’s prey and took it to the sky. Talk about wild kingdom!

Click here to see our entire Galapagos adventure!

Vermillion Flycatcher of the Galapagos
Vermillion Flycatcher

In a huge stroke of luck (and thanks to the amazing eye of our guide) we caught a glimpse of the tiny, extremely elusive Vermilion Flycatcher on a hike up to the caldera of Volcán Sierra Negra.

Galapagos Penguins
The Galapagos Penguin

Taking a dingy into Elizabeth Bay, we immediately came upon dozens of Galapagos penguins diving and frolicking beside us while hunting for their breakfast. These are the only penguins that live in the tropics.

A penguin swims in the Galapagos
Galapagos penguins swim with lightning speed!

See more about what’s going on underwater in The Galapagos!

Blue Footed Boobie in the Galapagos
The Blue-footed Boobie

Elizabeth Bay also provided our bird-watching missing link – the Blue-footed Boobie. Our trip would have felt incomplete without a sighting of this grade-school-giggle-inducing creature.

Click here to see our full adventure with Road Scholar – a not-for-profit organization – through Ecuador, Peru, The Galapagos Islands, Machu Picchu and much, much more!

David & Veronica, GypsyNester.com

Delve deeper:
See the incredible work done at Giant Tortoise Breeding Center
Check out the landscape of The Galapagos
Cavort with Sea Lions!
The Underwater World of The Galapagos
Our tips for visiting The Galapagos Islands – including what to pack

See our full adventure The Galapagos!

YOUR TURN: Are The Galapagos Islands on your bucket list?

Video – The “Bird Island” of The Galápagos


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Genovesa Island has been nicknamed “The Bird Island” and that moniker is certainly fitting. Considering the proliferation of the red-footed and Nazca varieties of boobies… CONTINUE READING >>

Genovesa Island of The Galapagos Islands has been nicknamed “The Bird Island” and that moniker is certainly fitting. Considering the proliferation of the red-footed and Nazca varieties of boobies, booby island was likely the original idea for a nickname… someone must have thought better of that nomenclature.

There is a six-foot boundary rule for all animals on the islands. As humans, it was our duty to keep that distance.

Male frigates do their version of the singles bar scene. What girl could resist a bright red inflated gular sac like that?

A major highlight of our bird hike on Genovesa had to be when we spotted a Short-eared Owl eating a freshly captured Storm Petrel. These rare owls are diurnal, meaning they hunt during the day, and are the only owls known to exist that exhibit this behavior.

Click here for more Birds of The Galapagos Islands

David & Veronica, GypsyNester.com

Click here for our entire live-blog of our adventure in The
Galapagos

Delve deeper:
See the incredible work done at Giant Tortoise Breeding Center
Check out the landscape of The Galapagos
Cavort with Sea Lions!
The Birds of The Galapagos – wild!
The Underwater World of The Galapagos
People live in the Galapagos?
Our tips for visiting The Galapagos Islands – including what to pack

YOUR TURN: Are The Galapagos Islands on YOUR bucket list? Have we inspired you to go? 

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Are We at the End of Days? This Mayan Says…

Did the Mayans know something we don’t? Does their calendar predict our eminent doom?

We had no idea where these ideas came from and, being lovers of this kind of stuff, set out on a quest for the truth.

We even went as far as traveling to the ancient and mysterious ruins at Tulum in Mexico to ask a REAL Mayan (with a great sense of humor!) what the official scoop is. Here’s what we found:

In 1957… CONTINUE READING >>

Here's to hoping the Mayans were wrong!

Did the Mayans know something we don’t? Does their calendar predict our eminent doom?

We had no idea where these ideas came from and, being lovers of this kind of stuff, set out on a quest for the truth.

We even went as far as traveling to the ancient and mysterious ruins at Tulum in Mexico to ask a REAL Mayan (with a great sense of humor!) what the official scoop is. Here’s what we found:

In 1957 professor Maud Worcester Makemson wrote that “the completion of a Great Period of 13 b’ak’tuns would have been of the utmost significance to the Maya.” A b’ak’tun is a measure of time equaling 144,000 days, (almost 395 years) on the Long Count calendar developed by the Mayans.

But what to make of that statement? Are “the completion of a Great Period” and “utmost significance” necessarily bad things?

Michael D. Coe seemed to think so nine years later when he wrote in his book, The Maya, “There is a suggestion…that Armageddon would overtake the degenerate peoples of the world and all creation on the final day of the 13th b’ak’tun. Thus…our present universe would be annihilated when the Great Cycle of the Long Count reaches completion.” He calculated that completion to occur in late December 2012.

Since Coe was held in high regard as an expert on all things Mayan, this theory got some people’s attention. The idea bubbled under the surface for the next few decades, but as the date grew closer lots of folks began jumping on the end-of-the-world bandwagon.

The movie 2012, predicting catastrophic earthquakes, giant tsunamis, and massive volcanic eruptions brought huge publicity to the notion of impending doom.

Not wanting to miss out on the public’s desire for disaster, The History Channel’s Decoding the Past series featured episodes entitled “Mayan Doomsday Prophecy”, and “Doomsday 2012: The End of Days,” spewing forth incredible fear mongering misinformation about the Mayan calendar and a galactic alignment. The apocalypse will occur if the Sun and the black hole at the center of our galaxy line up just right it will create all sorts of gravitational chaos on Earth.

But the real good stuff can always be found on the Internet. Horrifying prophecies are flying through cyberspace. Feel free to choose from Planet X colliding with Earth, a geomagnetic reversal where the north and south poles switch places, or massive solar flares sizzling the world. Anyone with a computer can see we’re all doomed.

Think Y2K was scary? This is Y2K plus a dozen!

We needed a dose of reality to calm our nerves, so we went straight to the source, the Mayan ruins at Tulum. Our guide Carlos fielded the big question and, since he’s a direct descendent of Mayans, we felt sure we’d get a straight answer… or not.

But seriously, a little humor is called for because the entire proposition is laughable. Mayan scholars say there are no predictions of impending doom in any written accounts, and the notion that the calendar ends in 2012 is a misrepresentation. There have even been Mayan writings discovered that refer to dates well past this feared end of time.

All we are facing is the end of the thirteenth cycle and the beginning of the fourteenth. That should be cause for celebration, so I think we can all start making New Years plans.

Oh, and this year we can say Happy New B’ak’tun too.

YOUR TURN: Isn’t Carlos great? Did he calm your fears?

Video – Is The World Really Going to End in 2012?


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Is 2012 really the end of the world? We asked Carlos, a real Mayan, for his take on the… CONTINUE READING >>

Is 2012 really the end of the world? We asked the fabulous Carlos, a real Mayan, for his take on the situation!

He got in a zinger when we asked about the coming end of the world according to the Mayan calendar! He explained how the official word is that the calendar ending only means another era will begin, but when Veronica asked “so you’re sure we aren’t all going to die,” he added “I don’t know what you’re gonna do, but the Mayans, we will be…

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Mom, Stop Coddling Me and Let Me Grow!

We have discussions about the parent / adult “kid” relationship quite frequently here at GypsyNester.com, but it’s quite rare that we get to hear the young adult point of view on our site, other than a few cherished comments in our discussion section.

We don’t kid ourselves, we are aware that there aren’t a lot a twenty-something people who get up in the morning and think, hey, let’s see what the geezer set is up to this days. 

So we felt pretty good when we came across “The Drawbacks of Being A Boomerang Kid” at YPULSE. In this story a recent college graduate  affirms our position on adult offspring returning to the nest.

“Could it be that some … CONTINUE READING >> 

GypsyNester Love Birds

We have discussions about the parent / adult “kid” relationship quite frequently here at GypsyNester.com, but it’s quite rare that we hear the young adult point of view on our site, other than a few cherished comments in our discussion section.

We don’t kid ourselves, we are aware that there aren’t  a lot a twenty-something people who get up in the morning and think, hey, let’s see what the geezer set is up to this days. 

So we felt pretty good when we came across “The Drawbacks of Being A Boomerang Kid” at YPULSE. In this story a recent college graduate, Casandra Liggin, affirms our position on adult offspring returning to the nest.

“Could it be that some parents may be doing their children a disservice by allowing them to wave their hands in defeat and retreat to the safety of home before giving it the old college try at adulthood?”

It certainly could! Ms. Liggin points out something we insisted our adult children learn before leaving home — work.

“Millennials are pained by the idea of settling for a less than ideal occupation rather than pursuing their passions. I think passions are wonderful, I truly do. But I also believe in working until one can draft the desired path to achieve their passion. Work experience of any kind is extremely valuable as it teaches you what you like and dislike in a job and how to communicate with diverse personalities… I would argue that one could learn more behind the counter of a Starbucks than sitting in front of a laptop sipping a caramel macchiato at their local coffee shop pondering their next professional move.”

Precisely! Ms. Liggin has noticed that many of her peers choose to play it safe by never really trying — our offspring have seen the same thing — and that often it’s the parents who are enabling this lack of effort.

“Maybe today’s parents are too quick to provide a soft landing for fear that their child will get bruised by life or dare I say it, rejected. From my experience, the sooner you experience disappointment, the quicker you learn to pick yourself back up, dust yourself off, and get back in the game.”

Obviously this is a lesson Ms. Liggin learned well,

“…resourcefulness is a skill I’m most proud of and wouldn’t have attained unless put in a sink or swim situation. Luckily, I’ve learned to swim many times over.”

We feel strongly that this sort of independence doesn’t just happen, it is a product of parenting, and Ms. Liggin sees that too.

“Sure, my parents would have let me come back home if I had experienced a major medical emergency, but anything short of that was pushing it. They had been prepping me for independence from the time I entered high school.”

This goes to show that strong parenting, even if it sometimes takes the form of helicopter parenting, can lead to happy, independent, self-sufficient young adults.

But as Susan Engel’s New York Times article “When They’re Grown, the Real Pain Begins” shows, sometimes letting go can be difficult. Especially when things get rough for your children.

“Last year, one of my sons went through a series of devastating setbacks. Almost everything bad that could happen to a young person happened to him. He had a catastrophic accident at work that permanently damaged one of his fingers. He will never use it again, though almost everything he loves to do requires the precise and flexible use of his hands. He endured a devastating break-up with a longtime girlfriend. And he got fired from a job he cared about, without any warning or rationale. He seemed just about as broken as a young man can be.”

Any parent is going to want to jump in at this point and Ms. Engel was certainly no exception.

“I wanted to be by his side constantly, I wanted to go out and hurt those who had hurt him, arrange new work for him…”

But her son understood that he needs to stand on his own two feet.

“‘Mom,’ he said, ‘when I tell you what’s wrong, I don’t want you to tell me how to fix it, and I don’t want you to tell me it’s not as bad as I think. I just want your sympathy.'”

That is one of the keys to creating a true adult-to-adult relationship with your adult children, love them, care about them, but allow them to solve their own problems.

A couple of the comments on Ms. Engle’s piece hit the nail on the head:

“As the mother of three and grandmother of six all I can offer is – keep your mouth shut and your arms open. If they want advice, they’ll ask for it.”

and

“There’s no magic to this. It’s the golden rule of parenting. Treat your kids the way you wanted to be treated when you were their age. When you were 28 did you want your Mom to fix everything for you?”

David & Veronica, GypsyNester.com

YOUR TURN: You’ve heard our thoughts, what are yours?