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The Pisté Résistance: A Surprising Discovery in The Yucatán, Mexico

In our travels it is often a slice of unassuming, everyday life that delivers the unexpected, and satisfying, taste of a destination.

As a gateway to Chichen Itza, we expected Piste to be dominated by tourist traps, but we found the exact opposite.
We couldn’t resist an evening enjoying some genuine Yucatán life… CONTINUE READING >>

In our travels it is often a slice of unassuming, everyday life that delivers the unexpected, and satisfying, taste of a destination.

Artifacts from Chichen Isza on the grounds of our hotel at Chichen Itza

Staying inside the archaeological site at  Chichén-Itzá more than lived up to our expectations, but we had no idea the pièce de résistance awaited just outside the site’s boundaries.

At our lodging we were appropriately thrilled at the fact that relics were right outside our door, and our proximity to the remarkable pre-Columbian city meant that we could visit early in the morning and later in the afternoon, before and after the crowds.

The pyramid at Chichen-Itza in MexicoThe Pyramid at Chichen Izta

Still, after a day of ruins rambling we were thwarted in our usual desire to wander around and get a feel for local life, because once the park closes there is nothing around except a couple of hotels.

Luckily, the town of Pisté is only a few minutes away by taxi.

Life in Piste, Mexico

Since it serves as the gateway to Chichén-Itzá,  we expected the village to be dominated by hotels, restaurants, and tourist traps, but what we found was nearly the exact opposite.

Pisté seems nearly untouched by the swarms of activity and visitors at its nearby, ancient neighbor. We could hardly resist spending an evening enjoying some genuine Yucatán life.

Carrying wares on the street in Piste, Mexico

A fruteria in Piste, Mexico

The town could be the least touristy of any place we have been in Mexico.

No doubt, some of this was due to the fact that we had come in the off season, but there was no hiding the fact that the town square is lined with little shops selling goods and services to the residents as opposed to the usual trinkets and such for the visitors.

Folks waiting for the bus in Piste, Mexico

The church in Piste, Mexico

We walked all the way around the plaza, checking out the church that, as nears as we could tell, doesn’t have a name.

It seems to be known as simply Iglesia Catolica, or Catholic Church, and like its name (or lack thereof) is a very modest little chapel in the style of the missions of the southwestern United States.

A side street in Piste, Mexico

Daily life in Piste, Mexico

Our favorite restaurant in Piste, Mexico

After our stroll we were ready to eat, and from what we could tell by far the most popular place to strap on the old feedbag was La Gran Chaya de Pisté.

The sign proudly proclaims Cocina 100% Yucateca, and they weren’t kidding, the food was most definitely one hundred percent authentic Yucatán.

We started with the region’s most popular dishes, and certainly the most popular soup, Sopa di lima.

Lime soup or Sopa de lima in Piste, Mexico

Though the name means lime soup, this is good old chicken soup, but with a twist.

As with most dishes in the Yucatán the origin likely traces back to the Mayans however, the lime that gives it its name, and the chicken, were both introduced by the Spanish in the sixteenth century. The Maya people may have used wild turkey and local spices.

Salbutes in Piste, Mexico

Another staple from the Mayan era made the base for our next dish, corn tortillas.

Strips of them were used like noodles in the soup, but they served as the entire delivery system for our second course, salbutes.

We would probably call them tostadas, but size and place of origin seem to make the distinction. Salbutes are small, with two or three served at a time, and are unique to the Yucatán.

Panuchos conchinita pibil in Piste Mexico on the Yucatan Peninsula

If the tortillas are allowed to puff up while cooking, then stuffed with beans before topping with other goodies, they are known as Panuchos. For gringos like us they were hard to distinguish, so we ordered both for good measure.

A whole family on one scooter in Piste, Mexico

In addition to the delicious authentic food, La Gran Chaya had another quality that made it perfect for whiling away a few hours, the location.

Sitting right across from the main square, on the busiest corner in town, made for some perfect people watching.

Riding a scooter while holding a small child in Piste, Mexico

By far the bulk of the traffic was traveling on scooters and bicycles, and it seemed like every last one of them went through this intersection several times.

The motor bikes seem to be most popular, and regularly carried up to three passengers.

We never saw four riders, but would bet it has been done.

A whole family on one scooter in Piste, Mexico

Many motorcycles have been transformed into taxis by adding a back wheel and an enclosed cab in Piste, Mexico

With some modifications, these usually two-wheeled vehicles have become the public transportation and delivery system for the town.

Many of the motorcycles have been transformed into taxis by adding a back wheel and an enclosed cab.

On some bicycles, an extra front wheel has been added to support a cargo area…

On some bicycles, an extra front wheel has been added to support a cargo area in Piste, Mexico

David's pants are courtesy of Bluff Works. He really gave these puppies a work out on this trip. He wore them on the plane over, spoke in them at the TBEX convention, rambled the ruins in the heat of Chichen Izta, crammed them in his suitcase, rode in them on the bus to Valladolid, and STILL looks stylin' - wrinkle free!
David’s pants are courtesy of Bluff Works.

He really gave these puppies a workout on this trip. He wore them on the plane over, spoke in them at the TBEX convention, rambled the ruins in the heat of Chichén-Itzá, crammed them in his suitcase, rode in them on the bus to Valladolid, and STILL looks stylin’ – wrinkle free!

…or the extra space can be used for passengers.

Modified bicycles in Piste, Mexico

Mobile street food vender in Piste, Mexico

Mobile street food vender in Piste, Mexico

Vendors have adopted this modification to become mobile shops, moving their wares to wherever the customers may be congregating.

After a few hours of observation, we felt satisfied that we had discovered the Pisté résistance of the center of the Yucatán.

David & Veronica, GypsyNester.com

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YOUR TURN: Don’t you love those quiet travel days when soaking up local culture is a proirity? What do you think about the cycle action in Piste?

How to Make Your Mother-in-law Love You Forever

I have known my mother-in-law since I was eighteen-years old.

Now, as a wise woman with over half a century behind me, I can reflect back on our relationship and see things with the clarity and compassion of 20/20 hindsight.

Yeah, right. I haven’t seen anything 20/20 in decades.

We’ve had our ups and downs, like any… CONTINUE READING >>

How to Make Your Mother-in-law Love You Forever

I have known my mother-in-law since I was eighteen-years old.

Now, as a wise woman with over half a century behind me, I can reflect back on our relationship and see things with the clarity and compassion of 20/20 hindsight.

Yeah, right. I haven’t seen anything 20/20 in decades.

We’ve had our ups and downs, like any two imperfect people in a close relationship, a relationship that never would have existed but for a man in our lives we both love, David.


My mother-in-law on her wedding day

It’s not that we don’t love each other – we do.

But the chances of us ever meeting, much less becoming close, without me falling for her son, would have been somewhere in the neighborhood of me winning the Powerball and the presidency at the same time. Geography alone would have seen to that.

Even with David as our bond, there have been times when we’ve had to put in some real effort to keep our differences from clashing.

My mother-in-law with The Piglet. GypsyNester.com
With her first grandchild, The Piglet.

Sometimes we were successful, sometimes not so much.

When we were younger — and it’s strange to think I’m older than she was when we met — we were both in uncharted waters.

I was her first daughter-in-law, the mother of her first grandchild, and a freestylin’ California Valley Girl.

My mother-in-law is traditional, Midwestern, and is still active with her college sorority and the Junior League.

We couldn’t be more different.

I know I’ve been far from perfect, have made mistakes as a daughter-in-law, and at times expected more from her than I should have, but… there is one thing I know I’ve done right.


I always like to find interesting arrangements to
switch things up!

Every year on my husband’s birthday I send my mother-in-law flowers.

It has always been important to me to let her know how much I appreciate the gift she has given me by spawning David. (Not that she would ever use a word like spawning.)

I never want her to forget I am grateful for that impact she made in my life.

Last week, right before David’s birthday, I attended AARP’s Life@50+ and learned about all of the great discounts available to those of us of a certain age.

The carnation dog was a big hit!

I was thrilled to find out that one of their well-vetted partners is 1-800-Flowers, the company I always order my mother-in-law’s flowers through because of their fanciful selection.

I found I get a whopping 20% off when I use my AARP Member Advantages Card.

So take my sage advice and go be uber-appreciative to your mother-in-law and buy her some flowers – she deserves it for the gift she gave you – and she’ll love you all the more for it.

No one has to know how much you saved.

Then again, telling her about the great deals available through AARP might just earn you even more brownie points.

(By the way… the rainbow flowers at the top of this post are the ones I chose for my m-i-l last Sunday – aren’t they groovy? She loved them!)

Veronica, GypsyNester.com

Thanks to AARP Membership Advantages for providing our trip to AARP’s Life@50+ where I learned about the discount for my mother-in-law’s flowers! As always, all opinions are our own.

YOUR TURN: I’ve told you my big secret for m-i-l happiness, please share YOURS!

David Interviews Director Bill Pohlad of “Love & Mercy” – Beach Boys New Biopic

This amazing movie delves deeply into the troubled life of Brian Wilson, the creative genius behind The Beach Boys, from a compassionate and compelling point of view – a must see.

David sits down after the screening with the film’s director and producer, Bill Pohlad (12 Years a Slave, Wild), to chat a bit about the extent of Brian Wilson’s involvement… CONTINUE READING >>

An Interview with Director Bill Pohlad of Love & Mercy - Beach Boys New Bio-pic. GypsyNester.com

A special pre-screen of the new music biopic Love & Mercy was featured at the AARP Movies for Grown Ups Film Festival in Miami – and we were so lucky to attend.

The movie delves deeply into the troubled life of Brian Wilson, the creative genius behind The Beach Boys, from a compassionate and compelling point of view.

Paul Dano plays Brian Wilson in the sixties, with John Cusack portraying the older Wilson. Paul Giamatti stars as Dr. Eugene Landy, the doctor who took advantage of Wilson’s condition for his own gain, and Elizabeth Banks as Melinda Ledbetter, who helps Wilson escape from Landy’s clutches.

David was pleased to have the opportunity to sit down after the screening with the film’s director and producer, Bill Pohlad (12 Years a Slave, Wild), to chat a bit about the extent of Brian Wilson’s involvement with the project and how this involvement affected the production of Love and Mercy.

Bill explains his desire to keep the movie away from the tabloid type of representation of a pop music icon, and he and David discuss the incredible influence the Beach Boys music, specifically the landmark album Pet Sounds, had on many of the bands in the sixties, especially The Beatles.

Love & Mercy will be in theaters June 5th – go see it!

Discounts at the movies for those of us over 50 at AARPdiscounts.com!

David and Veronica, GypsyNester.com

Thanks to AARP Membership Advantages for providing this great movie experience! As always, all opinions are our own.

3 Money Mistakes Empty Nesters Make – and One of Them is OURS!

Check us out talking about a BIG lesson learned in U.S. News & World Report!

When your kids leave home, you may worry about how they’re going to handle their money. But don’t forget to worry about yourself, too… SEE FULL ARTICLE >>

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Check us out talking about a BIG lesson learned in U.S. News & World Report!

When your kids leave home, you may worry about how they’re going to handle their money. But don’t forget to worry about yourself, too… SEE FULL ARTICLE >>

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So I Broke Down and Tried Botox (please don’t judge me!)

I’m a squinter. Always have been. My Grandma used to caution me, “Quit doing that – your face will freeze that way!”

In my twenties, David would affectionately tease me about my “worry line.” He would always know when something was amiss, all he had to do was look between my eyes.

Fast forward thirty (or so) years and, still, I squint on. The squinting’s worst when I’m writing – I don’t even realized I’m doing it.

And Grandma was right, my face… CONTINUE READING >> 

Before I get started, let me say a few things:

I am not a doctor, so I am not giving medical advice here.

I am not trying to convince anyone to do this, it’s just my story.

The photos are not altered. I wasn’t planning to write about this experience (I was and, still am, a little embarrassed), so the photos were originally taken for my personal comparison.

I did my best to be careful that the before and after photos were taken in the same light, the same location and on the same time of day. I also attempted to wear the same amount of mascara, and used no other kind of cosmetic on my face. Still, it’s not perfect science, I’m not a scientist (in addition to not being a doctor).

I am not being compensated in any way. No money, no free services, no nothing. No one suggested I do this. It was solely my idea and I paid for the treatment myself.

That being said, here’s the scoop…

Before Botox

I’m a squinter. Always have been. My Grandma used to caution me, “Quit doing that – your face will freeze that way!” In my twenties, David would affectionately tease me about my “worry line.” He would always know when something was amiss, all he had to do was look between my eyes. Botox can help address problems like crow’s feet, frown lines and more, as Aesthetic Lane explains.

Fast forward thirty (or so) years and, still, I squint on. The squinting’s worst when I’m writing – I don’t even realized I’m doing it.

And Grandma was right, my face did freeze like that. I had a very wise Grandma.

I was squinting as hard as I could here for this picture. See what’s going on?!!!
Before Botox

Then the headaches started. Right smack in the middle of the face butt. Mild at first, but eventually they were heavy and constant.

It was really boiling down to a lifestyle change. I would have to stop writing or go in for a drastic measure. And I didn’t want to stop writing.

I’m not going to lie and say that vanity didn’t play a part in this decision. I felt like every time I looked in the mirror (or worse, editing one of our videos!) my brow was getting more and more Neanderthal-like.

I can handle my laugh lines — they are created by happiness. But the cave man brow made me look like I was scowling. Like I was mean and angry. And I’m definitely neither of those things.

I wanted to look in the mirror and see my face reflecting my true, happy self.

So I ran my thoughts through the family.

The Piglet: Mom, I think you should do what makes you feel good about yourself. I’m going to do it when I’m older. I have a lot of friends in their twenties and thirties who already do it preventively. (ME: WHAT?!)

Decibel: You’re going to put POISION in your face? Seriously?

The Boy: I didn’t tell The Boy, he’d be no help and he’d just mock me, which is exactly what he did when he found out afterward.

David: I’m really against this idea.
Me: You’re not the boss of me (mature, I know.)
David: Fine, but I’m not driving you there.
Me: I’ll drive myself.
David: In what?

He called my bluff. The sum total of my motorhome driving experience involved top speeds of about 5 miles per hour in parking lots and campgrounds. However, his protective instinct kicked in.

I’m just not sure if he was more worried about me, or the motorhome. Either way, he ended up driving me.

The Piglet had advised me to find a really good Botox-er because people have ended up with droopy eyes and lopsided brows. She correctly assumed that was not the look I was going for.

So I found myself in a plastic surgeon’s office. My visit began with the reading of four scary pages of THINGS THAT MIGHT GO WRONG.

Then I started asking my questions. I had marked up the four scary pages with lots of questions. I learned that the droopy eyes and wonky brows can happen from the migration of the Botox to the wrong muscles. The doctor confirmed that it had happened to one of his patients and that it was temporary.

The doctor was fabulous and patiently answered my queries. After about ten of them, I started to feel a bit ridiculous. Here is a man who may have just performed a skin graft on a burn victim. Now he’s got this stupid woman in his office freaking out because her eyebrows might not match up.

I took a breath and went for it.

I never saw the needle, but it had to be tiny because I barely felt it. However, there was a more-than-slightly disturbing crunching noise during the procedure – in fact, the nurse actually called them “the crunchies” when I commented/freaked out about it.

The doctor completed his task in under thirty seconds.

For the rest of the day, I fed my panic monster. Every little twinge in my body had me convinced that it was a horrible side effect. I spent a lot of time checking up on face butt in the mirror. I searched diligently for possible infection at the injection sites (I couldn’t even find the injections sites).

After three days, I was seeing huge visual results. After five, the headaches stopped. Seriously. Completely stopped.

I made up my mind to share my story (and the fact that I tried Botox at all) mainly because I don’t trust the before and after photos I see in ads. It would have been nice to have someone I trusted give me the straight dope.

So in that spirit, allow me to show my embarrassing before and after Botox photos.

(Drum roll please!)

BEFORE: Relaxed. Note the face butt, the hook and the ridge.
Veronica relaxed before Botox

AFTER: Relaxed. One week later.
Veronica relaxed one week after Botox

Now, admittedly, the next two photos are slightly disturbing. In my head I knew what Botox did, but this was just weird.

BEFORE: Squinting as hard as I can.
Veronica squinting as hard as she can before Botox

AFTER: Squinting as hard as I can. One week later.Veronica squinting as hard as she can after Botox

Veronica, GypsyNester.com

YOUR TURN: NOW you can judge me. 😉 Have you/would you try Botox? Feel free to ask me questions!

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David and Veronica James From Empty Nest to No Nest

Veronica and David James were living on St. Croix in the U.S. Virgin Islands when the last of their three kids flew off to college. Some of us might have opted to stay in that tropical paradise, but the Jameses knew they needed a change… SEE THE FULL STORY

And that’s not all! See more Going Gypsy News!

David and Veronica James From Empty Nest to No Nest

Veronica and David James were living on St. Croix in the U.S. Virgin Islands when the last of their three kids flew off to college. Some of us might have opted to stay in that tropical paradise, but the Jameses knew they needed a change… SEE THE FULL STORY

And that’s not all! See more Going Gypsy News!

Letters from Americans to FDR at His Presidential Museum

In the entry hall to the Franklin D. Roosevelt Library and Museum, a wall is covered with letters sent to the president.

Partisan politics is nothing new, but we were impressed that FDR not only kept these, but they are now proudly on display… CONTINUE READING >> 

A big thank you to Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum and Dutchess County Tourism for providing this enlightening adventure. As always, all opinions are our own.

Very cute letter from a child to Franklin D. Roosevelt
Our favorites were from kids!

In the entry hall to the Franklin D. Roosevelt Library and Museum, a wall is covered with letters sent to the president.

We spent time perusing the correspondence and found that while most of it was complimentary, several held extremely harsh criticism as well.

Partisan politics is nothing new, but we were impressed that FDR not only kept these, but they are now proudly on display.

Here are more of favorites:

Very cute letter from a child to Franklin D. Roosevelt

Letters from American's at Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum

Letters from American's at Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum

Letters from American's at Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum

David and Veronica, GypsyNester.com

DELVE DEEPER:
Click into our full story about hangin’ with the Roosevelts in Hyde Park!
Find out more about the Roosevelt Ride
See the Roosevelt Memorial in Washington, DC
See all of our adventures in New York!

A big thank you to Franklin D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum and Dutchess County Tourism for providing this enlightening adventure. As always, all opinions are our own.