Our youngest, The Boy, is our third kid going through the away-at-school process and I was running low on the groovy care package ideas.
I needed help!
I think most of us with multiple children have encountered the problem of keeping the momentum alive when it comes
to the youngest.
They believe that we have always favored The Prince — as they call him — and that from his first breath he was
all that we paid attention to.
In reality, The Piglets baby book is impeccable. Ultrasounds, baby shower cards, locks of hair, countless photographs, even hospital records from the time she shoved a whole serving of peas up her nose — its all in
And when Decibel came along, we had discovered the camcorder. The video footage of her exploits — from her first steps to butt-scooting around with a broken leg in a cast are lovingly documented.
Big homemade productions that she directed and starred in were never missed. She created grand performances costumed in feather boas, dozens of necklaces adorning wild dresses and giant shoes. All of this was captured on
miles of video tape.
I’m not even sure The Boy has a baby book. If he does, its probably more like a baby pamphlet. Nor can I think of a single photo or video of him as a youngster that doesn’t include one or both of his sisters.
Hardly the chronicles we would have kept for the favorite.
Our Readers to my Rescue!
When the time came for The Boy’s first care package, I realized that I had once again lost my edge with him. The excitement I had felt while creating fun packages for The Piglet and Decibel was gone. I really needed some help. I decided that I should hand it over to the experts. Our wise readers.
I figured they could help me create a care package so amazing that it would make up for the fact that The Boys baby book is a mere leaflet and that he never achieved more than supporting actor status in our family videos.
The #1 Suggested Item – Homemade Baked Goods
Jan, a reader from our Facebook Page suggested: “How about brownies and ch.chip cookies – NOT out of a box! Nobody gets homemade any more it seems.”
Jane, also from Facebook added: “Homemade caramel fudge brownies…”
I am SO not a baker. And brownies? Don’t get me started. My only attempts have turned out runny goo or a black brick-like substance.
Jane had inadvertently suggested the impossible. But since we have the smartest and most clever readers, I dove right in.
Because we are purposefully homeless, I borrowed a kitchen (don’t ask) and started with Jan’s cookies.
Easy, really anyone can do cookies. I didn’t burn the bottom of a single one! The trick is to actually allow the oven to preheat.
For packing, I put four to a baggy, for busy college student grab-n-go ease.
Believe it or not, the brownies were perfect! Well, until the caramel topping part.
I really thought I had followed the directions to the letter, but as usual, things went terribly awry.
The caramel wouldn’t spread without decimating the brownies underneath and then it cooled into a rock-hard mess. Cutting them into squares (squares being a very flexible term) took a Herculean effort that required sculpting tools.
I sent them on anyway with the hope The Boy doesn’t yank a filling out.
Things I couldn’t mess up by cooking them
Wendy from Twitter said: “Anything local that they can’t buy where they are now. My kid is from Hawaii, live in NYC, so Crack Seed Shop care pkg is (love.)”
I really related to Wendy (after googling what crack seed was — it’s safe!); our kids all graduated high school
on a small tropical island. The conch shell horn is family tradition, The Piglet drove her dorm-mates crazy with her incessant blowing.
The Boy went to a college with a rich sports tradition, so the horn came in handy at football games.
Laurie from Facebook: “Rolls of quarters for the laundromat were always a hit!”
Mary Anne exclaimed, “Money!”
LOVE the rolls of quarters. Especially since we expected our kids to work for daily basics while in college, it’s a good way to give them a little money without ACTUALLY giving them money.
College is ridiculously expensive and we feel strongly that to appreciate it, they must pitch in. Though, like
Mary Anne, we sneak them checks for their birthdays and such.
Another no-money cheat is gift cards for groceries, restaurants, clothes, etc.
Another Twitter pal: “Lots of storage solutions if there is a dorm involved!”
Absolutely wonderful idea.
Dorms are tight spaces and anything you can find to create space would be most welcome.
The Boy received a laundry basket for this suggestion, as he was post-dorm.
No one is better at cracking an inappropriate, yet wickedly hysterical joke than The Boy’s “Uncle” Rich:
“How about a stack of nudey magazines and a 5 pack of Red Stripe?”
While The Boy may well enjoy those things, I found a magazine that I hoped he would find equally stimulating: Entrepreneur.
The lead story?
“Young Millionaires, How They Did It.”
Family friend, Devin, was equally as scary: “Technology.
Some cool gadget he doesn’t have yet… but for entertainment, not education. (ipod, psp,video watch…) Or, the funny option: Magnums.”
Holy crap! Devin’s kids get video watches?
We got The Boy a movie (movies are technology, right?), he’s a pilot, so Airplane! is a cult classic among his friends.
I’m ignoring the condom suggestion. The Boy would kill me for blogging about his condom situation.
Another note on movies. We sent both The Piglet and Decibel “best of” video DVDs in their first care package. They included funny clips of them, family antics, theatrical productions, band & choir recitals,
etc. They LOVED it! Of course we have no footage of The Boy, so he didn’t get one.
Thank you notes. Make sure you include stamps. Get the most masculine ones you can find if your spawn is a male.
Doesn’t mean that they will actually be sent, but it ups the odds. I’m happier to get a thank you phone call myself, seems much more personal (and fun!) but am satisfied with an e-mail.
But, the older crowd considers those means of communication rude – my mother-in-law included. So my kids send real live old fashioned thank you notes (I think).
Microwave mac ‘n cheese / soup / ramen noodles. These just-add-water comfort foods are great for care packages, and college students put these way up on their favorites list.
They also work as a nice packing buffer for breakable things!
Other nice packing materials:
— local newspaper sections (homesick babies read these)
— small bags of chips (the ones with lots of air in them)
— and sanitary products (sounds strange, but these are EXPENSIVE and are appreciated).
More GREAT ideas from our brilliant readers:
Favorite snack foods
Lynn @MamaSays, says (from the comments below): A cookbook aimed at new cooks, some essential spices
Melissa suggests (from the comments below): Kites (for spring) and the little guns that shoot nerf-type balls. Stress relievers!
TSogge says (from the comments below): Couple pairs of new underwear!
More ideas from Your GypsyNesters:
Toiletries: Shampoo, creams and potions, deodorant, contact lens solution, special soap, acne lotion, perfume — that kind of stuff. The Boy got toilet paper this time. He and his roommates can’t seem to keep it in stock. We sent it as a joke, but I’m sure it will be put to use.
Things for their computer: Print cartridges, computer paper, etc.
Pics from Home: Stick ’em in a frame if you are feeling fancy. Or not. They’ll love ’em either way.
Make sure you send enough food to share: College kids are ravenous wolves. No better way to make a new friend than to share a cookie or two.
YOUR TURN: Any ideas to share? Let’s brainstorm and come up with ideas for our newly “empty” nested friends!