Yes, you can Dress Sexy and Still be Comfortable

The groundwork for dressing sexy is confidence. You can have every sexy dress in the world, but if you not confidently yourself while wearing it, it will never work. Sexy dress doesn’t mean showing off your chest or legs and wearing skimpy outfits, it’s about showing off the essence of YOU.

Start at the bottom

High heels have long had a reputation as a staple in sexy outfits, and with very good reason! The lift that comes from a pair of heels just cannot be duplicated, and wearing them can take an average dress to a sexy dress in the blink of an eye. No-one said they have to be enormous – even just a little extra height can make a huge difference. The sweet spot is to find heels that allow you to show of your legs without showing too much skin. Hate walking in heels? You are not alone.  Why not give wedges a chance, if heels are a no-go? They are much easier to walk in, and go a long way in making you feel sexy.

Look at the legs

A perfect pair of jeans is one of life’s true joys. It is so satisfying to be able to show off your natural assets without having to expose yourself unnecessarily. Look for a pair that provides a bit of stretch, in a darker color wash. This is the most flattering combination that will suit most body types. Keep things age-appropriate too – there’s no point spending money on a great pair of jeans for a 16 year old! Dressing too young is unsophisticated and looks cheap. Keep things within your own age category for the best results in your appearance.

Get out of your comfort zone

I am a great believer in keeping things appropriate, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be trying new things and pushing the limits of your comfort zone! Make changes in small increments, like switching up your regular crew neck cut for a v-neck, or maybe a slightly more cropped cut. Play around and find your groove while testing the boundaries.

Formal clothes are not the only way to reach a sexy look – a plain t-shirt can look sexy if you dress it up in the right way! That little dress you have, that seems to not be anything out of the ordinary, but that you feel fabulous in? Guess what – it’s the dress you should be turning to, time and again! If it feel great, it looks great, and you should use that to your advantage.

Avoid looking trashy

Classy doesn’t mean stuffy, and sexy doesn’t mean cheap. This is why you should play around with combinations of items, to create an alluring, sophisticated wardrobe of reliable items that are fashionable, but timeless. It’s easy to pair items together to create the perfect alluring, yet sophisticated, wardrobe. Avoid fleeting trends and stay within what is age-appropriate, but don’t forget to have fun and keep it light!

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